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ImageDear Career Coach

My company has undergone a restructure and my job is now at risk. To avoid redundancy, I have been applying for jobs in other areas of my firm. My first interview was not successful and I have had feedback that my body language was very negative. I was feeling quite nervous and anxious about the whole process and would like your advice on what I need to do to improve in this area?

 

Interviews can be a stressful experience but they are a necessary evil if you want to get the job offer you are looking for.

Take the feedback you have been given in a positive way and try to make some changes to the way you are viewing the interview process. While you are understandably keen to find a new role within your company, if you come across as being desperate or anxious, it will be off-putting to the people interviewing you as they search for someone to join their team.

As part of your preparation for your interview, therefore, you will need to try and remain as calm and as relaxed as possible so that your body language can project you as a more confident and assured candidate. As body language experts will attest, what we communicate in our interactions with others is only partially based on the words we say. It is estimated that 85% of what we communicate is not with words, but through the tone of our voice, the way we sit and a wealth of other messages that our body involuntarily sends.

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Try some of the following tips to help you project the confidence that you want a recruiter to see:

  • Start the interview with a firm handshake and a friendly greeting. Keep your tone and approach professional yet friendly. Remember that as well as competence, the interviewer is looking for someone they would like to work with.
  • Watch your posture. Sitting up straight with your shoulders back will convey confidence and interest, so don't slouch in your chair or slump your shoulders. Poor posture conveys defeat and a lack of confidence and will override any good things you have to say. Good posture also helps you feel more confident and able to project your voice better.
  • Keep your head up; tilting it to one side if you want to come across as friendly and open. An occasional nod is another way to confirm that you are listening.
  • Maintain eye contact and stay focused on the conversation, listening carefully to what is being said before considering your response. If your eyes wander, you can appear distracted, nervous or even rather shifty.
  • Anxiety can drive excess energy which manifests itself as fidgeting, another distraction that recruiters dislike. Although it may be hard to control, avoid touching your face and hair and be aware of tapping feet or drumming fingers. If you are sitting at a table, keep your hands open and relaxed on the table and don't cross your arms over your chest – it can be taken as a sign that you are feeling defensive, bored and closed off and would rather be anywhere than where you are. Avoid pointing and stabbing gestures with your fingers as they can appear very aggressive to others.
  • Try and keep your tone of voice enthusiastic, and project energy and interest in the role you are discussing. The interviewers will be aware that your job is going and you don't want to give the impression that you are desperate to take anything else on offer. Give valid reasons for wanting the role and let your tone back up what you are saying.

Above all, bear in mind that you have what it takes to do the job and be prepared to talk about how your skills and experience will be useful to the team you want to join.

An interview can be a great conversation if you take the pressure off yourself and relax. That way, you and your body can speak the same language.

All the best!

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